Rekindle the Relationship with Your Healing Crystal

Are the sparks gone from your relationship with a crystal? Has your once-beloved energy muse suddenly stopped inspiring you? Did your communication break down? Are you now merely coexisting in the same space?

 

You may be suffering from crystal burnout. 

 

Something is off with your stone: either you’ve changed, the crystal has changed, or your dynamic has changed. Let us provide a little “relationship coaching” to help you reignite that fire in your crystal love life — or decide that it’s time to go your separate ways.

 

It’s Not Me, It’s You

Find the root: is it the crystal, or is it you. Maybe it’s mutual. Why has the spark gone out? Like any relationship, there could be a myriad of reasons. Listen to your heart and any communication you get from the crystal to narrow down the cause. Your intuition is your best guide—trust your gut. If you still aren’t sure, try following the steps below.

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Try Cleansing and Charging

Cleansing and recharging your precious piece should be the first step. If the crystal energy is dulled, it will naturally feel different when working with it. Helping it get back to feeling its best can change everything for you both. You can read more about how to cleanse and charge your crystals with moonlight for tips on how to bring your crystal back into alignment using the full moon.

 

If you still feel disconnected after cleansing and charging, you’ll need to look further at your relationship.

 

Reconnecting With the ‘New You’

If you’ve experienced significant growth or spiritual awakening, your crystal may not be resonating with your new energy. This is an excellent opportunity to try tapping into its additional healing properties.

 

For example, labradorite draws many as one of their first stones because of its beauty and protective energy. It also holds powerful energy for transformation and accessing mystical knowledge. If working with labradorite has lost its appeal, you could shift your focus to its mystical powers. Working with it to meditate, tapping into your intuitive gifts (like clairvoyance or clairsentience), or using it in an intuition-activating crystal layout is a great start.

 

If you’ve experienced significant growth or spiritual awakening, your crystal may not be resonating with your new energy.

 

Changing how you work with the stone could unleash a new depth to your relationship.

 

Spice Things up

Crystal energy can be enhanced, soften, or complemented by other gems, so adding another healing stone into the mix can help adjust your dynamics. Try:

  • Amplifiers: Quartz crystals like clear quartz amplify the energy of any crystal it’s paired with.
  • Balancing Stones: You can balance stones by their properties, their effects on a chakra center, or by their elements. Try a grounding stone with an ethereal-focused stone; red stones activate the root chakra while green stones balance and calm it; an air element like citrine balances with an earth element like tiger’s eye.
  • Corresponding Stones: Another stone with similar properties, like pairing two grounding stones.

Three crystal towers on a table, rose quartz, clear quartz, and purple amethyst

Take a Break

Maybe the best thing for you both is to take a break. Giving your crystal time for rest while you work with a crystal that you need more in your life at that time can be refreshing. Make it a purposeful and respectful break – don’t leave your crystal on ‘read.’

 

Thank your crystal for its support and confirm that you will come back when it’s the right time. Always cleanse your crystal before putting it into storage. 

 

Rose quartz is known as the stone of love—specifically self-love, unconditional love, and universal love. If you’ve been working more with this stone, it could be because you’ve needed to focus on these traits. At some point, you may need to connect with another stone of love—one with a green or pink color, which corresponds to the heart chakra.

 

Perhaps you need green aventurine, which opens the heart, attracts love, and deepens romantic love. Or tangerine quartz, which heals wounds of the heart. When you again need the healing energy of pink quartz, you may turn back to your rose quartz and reconnect anew. Trust the timing.

 

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Saying Goodbye

Sometimes you try everything above, and you must conclude things are over. As the Patty Smyth song goes, sometimes love just ain’t enough.

 

Always thank your crystal for your relationship and set a positive intention for its next journey—nobody wants to be ghosted or sent a lame breakup text.

 

A great way to let go of a crystal is to gift it to someone who you feel needs it. Gifting honors the relationship you had with the crystal and begins a new positive bond with the recipient born from your positive intentions. Bonus: there is a special power in receiving a crystal as a gift.

 

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